Confidence With Women and Why You Need It

Confidence With Women

A lack of confidence with women is a big hurdle for many guys to overcome but something that can easily be gained through experience and the right mindset. This article aims to address your confidence with women or lack thereof and get you to a point where you’re able to let go and approach. I’ll cover why you lack confidence; a simple exercise that allows you to overcome rejection and approach confidently, how having confidence improves all areas of your game and finally how to get it.

Understanding Confidence

In order to understand confidence, let’s look at why some guys might deal with a lack of confidence with women or approaching women. Generally a lack of confidence stems from a fear of rejection, you don’t want to approach her because you’re afraid of the consequences and your mind creates the worst possible scenario and scares you out of it. If you knew the outcome of the approach, you would be able to pull it off with confidence.

Take the Pressure Off

Make it a goal for to get rejected on your first approach. I know it sounds stupid but by releasing that pressure and accepting the rejection you won’t feel the fear because you’ve already accepted the outcome. What usually happens when you try this is that your approach becomes more confident because you’re not trying to achieve anything and you have nothing to lose.

Confidence With Women Fixes Everything Else

Having confidence not only improves your ability to meet and seduce women but it magically fixes a lot of your other issues. Your body language suddenly appears more relaxed, your self respect increases, you stand up for yourself, you take the lead and you’re no longer afraid of rejection.

Experience Equals Confidence

Like any other fear, it’s best to face it head on. The more you experience something the more confident you become at it. Take driving for example, I bet the first time you got behind the wheel you were nervous and didn’t do so great. The next few times you started to get better as you became more relaxed and experienced. Then eventually you get to a point where you become used to it and don’t even think about it anymore. It’s just something you do.

Now you can see how confidence relates to other areas of your game you can also see how important having confidence with women and confidence in general is. The good news is that it’s not hard to get and anyone can get it. The excuse ‘I’m just not a confident person’ doesn’t hold true. Everyone is confident with at least a few things in their life, whether it’s confidence with women or confidence becoming a level 60 Paladin in World of Warcraft. It doesn’t matter who you are or even if you have trouble saying ‘hi’ to someone, start small and work on having confidence with women everyday until you no longer have to think about it.