How to Impress a Girl – What She Wants You to Know

Knowing how to impress a girl correctly is easy right? You see it in movies all the time. Most guys think they should take her out to dinner, buy her flowers and expensive jewelry but there’s a better way.

This article will discuss why you shouldn’t buy her expensive gifts, why the small things usually make the biggest impact, how to make her respect you and why you should never try too hard to win her over.

 

Don’t Try to Buy Her Affection

Sure some girls may be impressed by fancy gifts but it’s communicating all the wrong things and not the path to take. When girls receive gifts like that from a guy she isn’t in a relationship with it puts unnecessary pressure on her. She will feel as though he is trying to buy her love or impress her with his money which sub communicates that he’s not good enough, she’s the prize and he needs to buy her to win her over. I’m not against giving gifts, but you should always ask yourself the reason why you’re giving the gift. Is it because you’re being nice or because you want something in return? If you want to impress her with a gift, make it thoughtful, unique or humorous i.e; draw a stick figure picture of you and her together with crayons and put it in a frame. It’s childish and lame, but she’ll find it cute and adorable and show all her friends.

Don’t Forget the Small Things

Don’t think she wont notice the small things you do for her, they often mean the most and will have the biggest impact. Women want to know that even when you’re not with them you’re still thinking about them. Even if you’re not it’s not hard to make her feel special by leaving her a note in her bag that she will come across during the day or sending her a text to let her know she’s on your mind. Little things like this only take a second, but she’ll be impressed by your thoughtfulness.

Be Honest About Everything

Lying may be more convenient but being honest takes courage and builds respect. Even if it’s something you know she will not be impressed with, if you’re honest about it she will respect you for it. Don’t be the guy who tells her she’s the only one when you’re seeing five other girls on the side, if she finds out (and she will) it will end up much worse than it could have been if you were honest about it all along. It may also damage your reputation.

How to Impress a Girl - Don’t Try Too Hard

Knowing how to impress a girl is about finding the right balance. You don’t want to overwhelm her otherwise it will probably seem like you’re trying too hard. Don’t always give her all your attention either; otherwise you may come off as clingy and needy. The best way to impress her is by letting her find out things about you on her own, whether its through people you know or something she comes across. A man who doesn’t brag about his accomplishments only makes him more attractive and the things he has accomplished even better.