What Women Find Attractive

I don’t care what you look like or how much money you make or even if you’re not physically her type, if you know what women find attractive, you can trigger those attraction switches and compel her to become attracted towards you…as David DeAngelo states, attraction is not a choice.

Men only look for a few things in women and you already know what they are. Women on the other hand are much more selective about what they find attractive in a man, so the good news is that many of those things are also things you can work on improving. Here are the 4 main ones that you should start working on today.

 

What Women Find Attractive? Become an Alpha Male

What women find attractive is an alpha male. There are many different attractive elements that alpha males possess and they are hard wired to be attracted to them. Even if she they won’t admit it, all women want an alpha male. She knows that an alpha male has strength of character, will stand up for himself (and her), can take the lead and will be a man. See how to become an alpha male.

Make Her Laugh

Making her laugh does more than just put her at ease; it demonstrates a fun personality, wit, intelligence and that you don’t take things too seriously. If you can be the guy to make her laugh and forget about all the troubles in her life, it will go a long way towards solidifying your bond. Laughing produces endorphins (which are experienced during orgasm) and produces a feeling of well being. Basically, laughter makes her feel good and she will associate and attribute those feelings towards you. 

Develop Your Sense of Style

Women want a man who will take care of them, but will also take care of himself and knows how to dress the part. You don’t have to wear $3000 Armani suits to have style. Just be well groomed, clean and wear clothes that match your personal style. Ignore what’s in ‘style’; this is easy to notice because everyone else is wearing it. Instead find your own style that way you will stand out and feel more comfortable. Avoid logos and clothes that don’t fit correctly.

Be a Challenge

What women find attractive is a man that she wants but has to work for. By making her work for you, she will value the time she does have with you that much more. It will also make her realize that you don’t need her and that you have other options.

• Always be the first one to end the interaction. Sometimes leave suddenly at random moments
• Don’t be too available. Don’t always return her calls/texts/messages
• Don’t always give her your full attention. After talking to her, wander off and do something else.
• Don’t see her more than twice a week
• Go “missing” for a few days at seemingly random times, you should not contact her at all during this time

By understanding what women find attractive, you can use that knowledge to demonstrate higher value (DHV) and attain higher quality women.